October 29th

So, hello everyone. Let's face it, having relationships with people we love is not always easy. Falling in love is wonderful, you have that amazing attraction to each other, your bodies tingle with emotion, your energy is so intense you don't want to let it go. Then after a few months you are comfortable with each other, and issues start to arise. We may pick each other apart, we may not trust or respect the other. Let's assume we are all deserving of respect and trust, two major factors after our love high comes down to earth. We need to demand respect, not accept anything less. If less is happening, then we need to express that to our other half and explain this behavior is unacceptable and needs to change immediately. People give out flags, even in the beginning of the relationship about who they are, trustworthy and respectful, or critical, abusive, or a cheater?? The good qualities, or the unloved ones?? We all want to feel secure in a relationship and deserve to. To know you are loved so much, and the other person would never hurt you by cheating. But, still it happens, we are devastated, shocked and angry. Do we forgive? Some of us do, some do not. Whatever it is you choose, it is okay. We do things for a reason, we all have different strengths and weaknesses, and many of us are afraid to be alone. Whatever you choose, don't stay because you are "afraid to be alone." Maybe it's time for you to learn who you are, within yourself, and find strength and courage in that. When we are stronger, happier individuals, we will become a happier couple, obviously!! To cling from relationship to relationship is not healthy. What is that behavior saying? Maybe you are afraid to be alone, to find your true self, to figure out why you are here and what you are meant to do. Time alone is amazing when you are caring for yourself and you find a universal strength, call it God, Buddha, or whatever you resonate with, including the power of the universe. It is all there, and it is good. And take time with the ones you love, we all need support from others.
So, if you are on a break from a relationship and caring just for you, enjoy the ride. Do things for you that you would not take the time to do when you are with your loved one. Anything, just do it!! And definitely do not cry about being alone, another love will come, just keep the door and heart open!! Keep busy, do not feel guilt or anger over the old relationship, it ended for a reason and now its time to move on!! And good luck and God Bless You all always,
me